How Attraction Works.
There is a lot of misunderstanding on how attraction works. I will first be breaking down what guys thinks women want and present to you what women actually want.
Good Looks
Many men mistake that looks is an important factor to attraction. If you are one of those men, thats because you mistakenly think that just because you are placed looks as the #1 criteria for women, women also place looks as the #1 criteria for you.
You are self deceived, while it's nice that you have good looks, it's not a dealbreaker. This does not mean you have an excuse to not go to the gym and make yourself look better, because looking not-good means that you would need to game better than the good looking guy (me haha!)
Provider / Rich / Material Possessions
Many men also mistake of using their material posessions to attract women, or men who lackthereof these material posessions would conclude that they need such material posessions to attract women.
Just try this for yourself, just go up to a woman, say how rich and awesome you are, you can just lie, and see how fast she will blow you out of set.
The Dealbreaker Qualities For Women Are Actually:
Confidence
If you have no confidence, you're going to have a rough time. If you believe that you need good looks and a lot of material posessions to attract women, I can guarentee you have almost zero confidence. Because you need external things to suppliment your value.
Emotional Variance
If you cant make a woman feel anything she will also find this to be a dealbreaker. You need to make her feel a wide range of emotions.
Here Are All The Qualities That Repels Women:
- Neediness
- Desperation
- Creepiness
- Attachment and treating her like a queen
- Meekness
- Shyness
- Fear
- Insecurity
- Lack of balls
- Sexual vulgarity (talking about sex, her tits or ass)
- Making her feel like a slut
- Fakeness and being gamey
- Bragging
- Boring logical conversations
- Forcing her to lead
- Trying to impress her
- Being ungroomed, bad hygeine, no style
- Creepiness
How Do We Solve The Above?
- Having abundance
- Having abundance
- Having good calibration
- Disqualifying and expressing negative emotions
- Value yourself, knowing what a shame for the girl to not date you.
- Good social skills
- Approaching a lot and having a lot of experience
- Removing limiting beliefs
- Narcissism (Believing that you are better than her)
- Calibration
- Calibration
- Authenticity
- Self deprecation or disqualifying. Make it look real, she needs to believe it.
- Teasing and emotional variance
- Leadership qualities, assertiveness
- Self deprecation or disqualifying.
- Dress and look well, find your style
- Calibration.
Here Are All The Qualities That Attracts Women
- Leadership
- Confidence
- Assertiveness
- Strength
- Entitlement
- Humour
- Detachment, your life mission is more important than the girl
- Adventure
- Good sex developed on deep intimacy
- Charisma
- Masculine Energy
- Charm
- Cocky and Funny
- Witty
- Fun
- Romance
- Being highly social
- Positivity, Optimism
- Playfullness
- Emotional variation, emotional rollercoaster
- Passionate (for life)
- Strong personality (no shame for expression, no meekness)
- Decisiveness
- Vulnerability
- Deep intimacy
- Authenticity
- Boldness
- Competence
- Pre Selected
- Status
- Good reputation
- Strong eye contact
- Clean and well groomed
Conclusion
I hope this master course on attraction may silence any un-attractive man complaining on why they cannot attract women. This is a good list of traits to cultivate in your life, this took me 3 years so you can take your time.
If you cant attract women because you're unattractive thats OK! Slowly cultivate these in your life and most importantly, be pateint.
Cheers. Please check out my other posts and practice everything holistically. Send me an email if you want a specific topic written. You can see "coaching" to see if I have room to onboard new students.
Best of luck,
FriendlyWrenChilling.